TOP 50 IDEAS - and some bonus suggestions - both frivolous and serious..... to help you try something a little different, possibly risky or even inspirational!

BYTW Day

1. Wear your favourite clothes - that special outfit that brings out the best in you.

2. Change your e-mail footer to include an inspirational quote.

3. Thank the IT team for the service they give you.

4. Carry your favourite CD so that everyone else can listen to it.

5. Take a picture of your children to add on the 'love and fame' wall.

6. Hold a meeting in the park, local coffee shop or museum/ art gallery.

7. Write and share your "other" resume - all those skills and experiences you have picked up which you would not normally include in your official CV.

8. Draw a metaphorical picture of yourself and add it on your office BYTWD wall of fame.

9. Bring a photo of you when you were a child.

10. Wear that very special perfume/cologne.

11. Wear your favourite jewellery and tell everyone why it is so special.

12. Buy a bunch of flowers and put them on your desk.

13. Bring some crayons, use the conference room paper to make a drawing with your colleagues.

14. Find a copy of African Drums music and dance (or whatever music you like to dance to!!!)

15. Order a cake or a big bowl of fruit and eat it with your colleagues.

16. Wear a T-Shirt that reveals something of you.

17. Organize a themed meeting with your colleagues. Themes: my first bicycle, the best Christmas present etc.

18. Play hide and seek in the office.

19. Organise a pretend camp fire on the floor sitting in a circle and share a never told before story.

20. Print alternative business cards that tell another story about you - let people know about all the roles you play over and above your work role.

21. Tell someone else something about yourself that you're really proud of, or was a high point in your life, and ask others to reciprocate.

22. Tell someone about an ambition of yours, and why it is so important, and ask others to reciprocate.

23. Tell a person you work with what you really appreciate about them. Praise them for some special care you saw them put into what they do.

24. Tell your manager/boss what you really appreciate about them (contrary to popular belief, managers need praise too).

25. Ask people what it is they appreciate about you, what value you really bring to those around you. You might be surprised by the answers!

26. Smile and make real contact with people all day - people in shops, people on the street, people in the train. Break into conversation if you feel brave enough!! Between women a good starter is 'I was just admiring your outfit'... Dogs and children break the ice too...

27. If you are having a meeting on Bring YourSELF to Work day, tell everyone about it so they can join in. Start the meeting by having everyone introduce themselves in a different way - e.g. by telling people something they are finding challenging at the moment, and something they've achieved that they felt really good about. (This is a first step of allowing the subject of emotions into the workplace!!)

28. If you are a manager, open up a conversation with your team about the extent to which the workplace and your culture is set up to support everyone to 'bring themselves to work'. Do they want to? What do they think would happen if they did? What benefits do we think it would have? Are there unspoken rules about what is appropriate/not appropriate or allowed/not allowed? Are the boundaries real or imagined? Do they work for us? There may be some 'rules' we want to maintain, but some we could relax - maybe just as an experiment.

29. Do you have skills that you use outside of work that people don't know about? E.g. in your hobbies, sports, as a parent, as a carer etc. Share them with each other and see if it changes your perception of people.

30. SET YOUR INTENTION - to be your best self at work today - however that is. Bring all your best qualities that get forgotten when you are chasing deadlines or targets.

31. RELAX AND GET CENTRED - it takes just two minutes to do a simple relaxation before a meeting or challenging task. Remember how effective you can be and bring this to the job in hand.

32. PRAISE OTHERS - go out of your way to tell people what they do well and acknowledge their contribution. Be curious and interested in how much there is to your colleagues that you don't normally see.

33. RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS - do an unexpected favour for your colleagues - print a document, run to the shops, send them home early while you finish a piece of work to help them.

34. FUN - inject some fun and humour into your day - a silly card, a toy, a song, a smiley face - anything to lighten up a bit. Enjoy your work and your colleagues and go home in a good mood.

33. Make their day - how can you engage fellow employees, customers and make each other's day?

34. Be Present - How can you make sure you are fully available and aware during conversations with people? It is about create a greater sense of intimacy between individuals.

35. Choose Your Attitude - Each day you choose how you are going to act or which "side of the bed" you wake up on. The choice is yours and, the way you act, affects others.

36. If you have to go into a difficult/important situation on the day, think ideally how you would like it to turn out, think how you need to be in order to have that positive outcome, see if you can remember a time in the past when you were like that (remember it as much in technicolour as you can - what did you see, hear, feel etc)... Then see if you can take that 'state' into the difficult situation and notice how it turns out.

37. Phone up someone from your past that you haven't spoken to for a while - maybe an old colleague or client and have a chat, for no particular reason, just to make their day (tell them about BYTW day while you're at it!!)

38. Have a discussion as a team about the extent to which your workplace, culture and ways of working support you and others to bring themselves to work. Are there aspects that restrict you? E.g. perceived disapproval, conventions, hierarchy etc. Consider are these restrictions real or imagined? Are they useful? Which ones do you want to keep and which ones do you want to get rid of? What can you all do to make it more OK for people to be themselves? If you are a management team, great, you can probably affect quite a lot. If you are lower down the company, start with things you can affect, and go from there. Is there anyone else you need to get on board to make this work?

38. Quit complaining all day long.

39. Bring something in your pocket really dear to you and be ready to participate at the "Show and Tell Tea/Coffee Break."

40. Think of an animal that would represent your very best qualities. Bring it to the work zoo.

41. Break a rule.

43. Expect to have fun all day.

44. Work as if you'd do it if you weren't being paid.

45. Look in the mirror and see yourself as the 'boss or colleague from heaven, not hell'.

46. Repeat to yourself 'Work is part of my life. It's not who I am."

47. Add some colour and pictures to the most functional document you create today.

48. Count your blessings - challenge yourself to acknowledge 10 things that you are really grateful for in your life. Think about how you could turn the volume up on each of them. If it is someone you love - could you tell them? If it is an experience you like, could you make time in your life to do more of it? If it is just something you walked past and liked the look of, like a sunrise, or a flower - could you slow down and take more of it in? It's sure to put you in a good mood.

49. Bring the kids with you to the office - they'll love it.

50. Wear whatever you feel like when you look out of the window.

And a few bonus ones…

51. Bring your pet with you, if appropriate.

52. Connect with everyone you meet in a deep and meaningful way.

53. Be willing to be seen as YOU.

54. Tell your colleagues about one of your pastimes that you are really passionate about.

55. Fix your working hours to suit your lifestyle just for today.

56. For today - do whatever it takes to have fun at work.

57. Spend the day being really curious about your colleagues and who they are being at work today.

58. Snuggle up for an afternoon nap in a lovely soft blanket, and let people know you are doing it - be careful they may want to join you!

59. If you've got an instant or digital camera - take pictures of people bringing themselves to work and put them on the notice-board.

60. Get to know 4 new people at work

61. Wear that special accessory - especially one that conveys something about you, or one that will break the ice and start a conversation going..

62. As an ice breaker at a meeting, play “Two lies and a truth”, ie each person takes a turn to share three unlikely sounding “facts” about themself, then the others at the meeting guess which is the true fact. The original person reveals the true fact and everyone knows if they guessed correctly.

63. Recommend the most important book you have read which you feel others would benefit from.

64. Read an inspirational poem.

65. Ask people if they are emotional at home but logical at work (if they say purely logical at work, ask them how they really make decisions…).

66. Take a step you’ve been procrastinating over for some time.

67. Ask someone for help or to become a mentor to you.

68. Give someone some valuable feedback.

69. Take into the office the mug with your favourite logo.

Send us any suggestions you may have to make the list the top 100!

 


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